Part 15: The Passengers Seat

Whatever happened to me finding a single guy, getting to know him and eventually dating? There are several types of sidechicks and over the course of these diaries.. you will know their differences. The young/naive Sidechick The “I have to be mainchick” Sidechick The “I love your man” Sidechick The “let me manage” Sidechick The…

Part 14: The Tulip Bistro

Technically Adnan says he is not in a relationship, which means what I’m doing here ain’t considered cheating…. In a weird way, I started to miss how honest Jamil was when I asked if he had a girlfriend, and he straight up said yes. Why am I even praising honesty? It’s something that should be a…

Part 13: The Mister on Twitter

So I decided to test Aisha’s hypothesis. In theory, I had already proven that hypothesis to be true from my previous endeavour with Jamal and his own girlfriend. The past 2 years of my life I had been a side chick, you can say I got used to it. You’ve got to adapt, don’t you?…

Part 12: The Hypothesis

Adnan..what a WOW! Like I’ve said before we girls tend to fall in love with a lot of what we hear, when I decided I wanted Adnan, I didn’t want him specifically..I just wanted someone like him. Someone who treated me like I was his world. His girlfriend Aisha spoke him up like there was…

Part 11: Plan B

Previously on Diary of a Side chick: Jamil had promised to break up with his girlfriend Khadija for me, which led me to sort of sabotage my relationship with my boyfriend Ahmed. Funny enough, Jamil left me out to dry and decided to stay with his girlfriend. LOL🙃🙃🙃🙃 The L that I took from Jamil…

Part 10: TwoZero

sWhat if I never accepted Jamil on Snapchat? What if Jamil was single when I fell for him? What if Ahmed never listened to his friends? What if I never met Jamil and it was all Ahmed? All these were questions that I could have never found answers to. Waking up to the missed calls and…

Part 9: Bermuda Triangle

This story is not fictional the only thing changed are the names, Last last you go still read am. We’ve been dating for 7 months now and probably broke up more than 3 times but there was something about Ahmed , his persistence was key because I loved how he refused to give up on…

Part 8: What’s Louis, my killa?

Jamil is telling me how much he misses me and that he needs me back in his life. He says he’s ready to leave Khadija so that we can finally be together. Should I buy it? I mean obviously the feelings weren’t fully extinguished so I’m tempted at this point to go back to him…

PART 7: Childish Games

My side chick days were finally over and behind me. Ahmed made me feel special, in a way that I had never felt before. Everything was amazing, the love was mutual. Ahmed was leaving the country soon and he made sure he’d visit every night and sometimes his cousin would accompany him. He hardly ever…

Part 6:The Alibi

It’s the first time we’ve ever met, so I’m full of emotions. I want to get out of the car and just shut the door as hard as I can…but the other part of me wants to stop time and enjoy this moment. I notice that Ahmed was calling me, but I failed to pick…

Part5: Sabali Showdown

“Why is Khadija asking me if you have a boyfriend ? I’m wondering why she won’t ask you herself” said Yasmin(mutual friend with Khadija) My heart suddenly plunges to my stomach , and I’m trying to concentrate on my driving . Khadija has played her first move… There she was, dressed in an outfit that…

Part 4: Sitting Duck

Time frame: August 2015 (the stories featured on Diary of a Side Chick are 99.9% true) “He’ll handle it,” I repeated it over and over again. Now I’m scolding myself, at what point did I ever think it was okay to keep pursuing this? My sister had warned me about a situation like this but…